I never knew it would be so hard to toilet train my kids.
Sure there is plenty of information out there but all kids respond in different ways.
The best idea I came across was to sit them on the toilet for a few minutes about half an hour after lunch/dinner until they get used to the idea.
Try to keep them occupied with a book or game.
Tell them to pass wind or breathe in and out deeply.
It seems to be getting better,
but I guess only time will tell.